One of the TREASURES I have in my life is my husband MARCEL. I was so blessed to have him even in a short period of time. We just get married last April 2010 but unfortunately it didn't end up in the way we plan it because he already died last June 2010 due to a motorcycle accident. I write this article to give some tips on HOW TO HANDLE THE SITUATION OF BEING A WIDOW.
1. TRUST IN GOD. Don't question the will of our savior. He knows everything and all of this has a purpose. Always remember that he will not give us challenges that we can't survive.
2. DON'T TAKE IT NEGATIVELY. Everyone has their own time. Death is still a normal thing which anybody will experience and we all have to accept this fact. Don't think that it is the end of the world for your life.
3. DON'T RUSH. People can't accept it immediately because time will heal the pain of losing an important person in our life.
4. SAVE MONEY. Being a widow is not that simple most specially when you have children to raise. Saving money is one of the most important thing to do to sustain the needs of your children.
5. CHERISH THE MEMORIES. You may lose the person you love but the memories can still remains. Anyone cannot steal this from you and it is a TREASURE which you will have forever.